Do you want to be in control of your life and create the results you desire? To be in a position of power and change whatever is not working in your life? Do you want to be able to change the people around you, the results you produce and even how you feel?
Most people believe that power and control are limited to the fortunate few who were born into power (e.g.: the tycoon’s son), or acquire power through exceptional talent, business acumen or lady luck.
They believe (and we’ll prove them wrong), that the rest of us are destined to be buffeted by whatever winds of change swirl around us.
Economic slowdown, recession, company takeovers are the common winds of change.
The truth is, you do not need to have money or be in a top position to take control over what happens. In fact, people at the helm can also lose control…with much bigger consequences.
Look at the CEOs who watch their company’s profits nose-dive helplessly in a bear market.
Or what about the US Army Generals who entered Iraq thinking that they were liberators of the people only arriving to find themselves regarded as invaders. Were they, the high and mighty in control? Not at all!
Taking Absolute Responsibility Gives YOU Absolute Power
The secret is to take absolute responsibility for whatever happens. That’s right! When you take full responsibility for whatever happens, it means you acknowledge the fact that you have created whatever happens.
If you created it, then you have the power to change it. So, taking absolute responsibility for something puts you in a position of absolute power.
The extent to which you take responsibility over something is the extent to which you have control over it.
For example, if you take responsibility for your low pay, it means you acknowledge the fact that it was your actions and decisions that were the cause of this result.
Reasons could be that you are not creating enough value to be paid more; you have not demonstrated your true value to your boss; or that you chose to work in a company which does not recognize your true value.
Regardless of the reason or position you are in, you have the power to take charge and change anything in your life. The moment you take responsibility, you put yourself on the road to doing something about it.
You can either find ways to create more value by going beyond what is expected, make yourself more valuable by upgrading your skills, ask for a pay raise or find another job that will pay you what you are worth.
When you start taking any of these actions, your situation will change… you will get paid more!
Taking absolute responsibility for your situations and results puts you in a position of absolute power. So remember every time you feel like blaming others or circumstances, stop and take charge!
