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Success Attitude

It’s Just Not Enough

It’s Just Not Enough

We sat around the table, about 7 of us, die hard networkers out on a cold stormy day.

This was not ordinary networking but more of a meeting of like-minded entrepreneurs ready to share ideas, challenges and even heartbreak.

My share was finished and the women next to me, a wonderful artist, began to talk about the purity and beauty of the creative process.

My stomach started to knot.

She talked about that incredible moment when you are at one with the art, no person or place in mind, just you and your creation.

I sensed the tension rising and then realized that I actually felt a little angry.

She continued to tell us a story about a process she used to get herself into a meditative state in order to create the perfect piece.

I was furious.  And completely confused.  What was wrong?  Why was I so agitated?

I love working from a creative and peaceful, meditative state.  I adore that specific moment when you are in flow and the words just come tumbling out.  I have felt the power of channeling something magic, almost holy and when it all falls into place and it feels just right.

So why was I so frustrated and annoyed by her approach?

Well, here’s why.

I realized that there is such a thin line between creativity and self-indulgence.

I thought about how the outcome IS so important.

I imagined the scores and scores of coaches and healers that I’ve met who just love what they do and have no idea, whatsoever, how to describe it.  They can’t tell the story of the work and be clear about the transformation they support in their clients.

So that means they are really poor.  And often they can’t even afford to do what they love and have to get a job to support their ‘creativity habit’.  That infuriates me.

If this sounds familiar then I REALLY want you to listen up.

You can be super-creative, have a process and practice that creates the most amazing pieces of art, or words, or ideas….

But if you don’t have a client in mind, a clear issue that they need support on and the clarity around the result you can help them achieve….

Then you won’t have a business.

Creativity is not enough.

Brilliant ideas are not enough.

Being in the zone is not enough.

You need to serve.  You need to contribute.  You need to support someone else and make their life easier in the specific area of your expertise.

And you need to be able to talk about it.  To tell your story.  And to get them to pay you for it.

I’m not being insensitive here.  I’m not being unfeeling.

I’m being realistic.

I want you to be a huge success with your creativity.  I know you can be.  So go out there.  Connect with your clients. Tell your Story.  And you’ll be richer and wiser for it!
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Legal

NDA Obsessions: Why you should bare it all (at least most of it) #entrepreneurfail

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New Webcomics series brought to you by #entrepreneurfail and GetEntrepreneurial.com. Enjoy!

If we got a dollar every time someone told us to sign an NDA (non-disclosure agreement), we’d retire right now. The irony is that NDAs, trademarks, patents and copyrights are very expensive to defend for a small business. Many aspiring entrepreneurs are concerned that their startup will come across predators who will steal their idea, so they invest in these legal tools as a precaution. Little do they realize that protecting their idea could cause them to go out of business!

A couple of years ago, we were sued by a Fortune 500 company for a trademark application that we naively filed. Although lawyers said we had a fighting chance, we couldn’t justify the $250K in fighting dollars to take the case to court. The Fortune 500 company shut down our operations. The moral of the story is that NDAs/trademarks/patents/copyrights/other legal toys are great in theory, but unless you have the pockets to defend them, they are nothing but an expensive hobby.

You’ve heard of FOMO (fear of missing out)?  Let’s introduce you to FOSO (fear of stolen opportunities), which is an #entrepreneurfail. Entrepreneurs need to overcome this fear.  There is no way the business or product will be successful while in extended stealth mode.  The iterative feedback needed to create value only happens when the entrepreneur is an “open kimono”, laying all the vulnerabilities out on the table.  Many seasoned entrepreneurs can attest to this.  As the CEO of Skillshare, Michael Karnjanaprakorn, mentioned once, it didn’t matter if others were copying his company’s ideas because his vision and execution were always farther ahead.   And today Skillshare is leaps further than its competitors.

For a simple business idea, skip the NDA, get the work done, launch and you’ll be one step closer to success. (Of course: it’s probably best to get the final word from a lawyer since this is just our opinion!)

We’d love to hear your thoughts. Did you create an NDA? If so, what were your experiences? Tell us in the comments below!

(Enjoyed this comic and post? It was originally posted on #entrepreneurfail: Startup Success)

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Customer Service

Are You Losing Customers?

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I AM A CUSTOMER. In the last month, I have contacted a number of small businesses and companies to get information and pricing for a soup-to-nuts residential design project. Overall my customer experience has been extremely varied, but one thing I know for sure; I will not do business with you and this is why!

Slow response time

I make it very clear that I am looking for information to make a final selection for products and services for an architectural project, where the plans are being submitted to the planning department at the end of the month. Timely response requested, please! Some of my requests are for large ticket items, which can positively impact a small business or even a larger company.

When I don’t hear back after my initial email, web contact or tweet inquiry within 24 hours, I am already doubtful if we will be able to do business. This has proven to be the case when I have continued a dialog with those whose first response arrived one or two weeks! later? Everything seems to continue at the pace set by our first exchange, and I can expect bids to take two weeks or more….

Something especially frustrating, is when making inquiries to a company about their product, you are directed to a dealer, who sometimes takes more than two weeks to reply, and when they finally contact me they try to sell me something else! Hello?

Some companies have learned that when a customer inquiry comes to them directly, even though they only sell through dealers, they give the information, answer questions, and in some instances even give pricing estimates, sometimes within 24 hours! I love that! And I’m happy to buy from their dealer too (assuming I get the same follow through).

Not answering the question I ask

If you are not going to provide ma a clear answer to my the questions at the beginning of the sales dialog, how are we going to work together on a complex project?

Recently, after an initial phone conversation where I was researching to find out if a company carried the specific type of product I was interested in, and could they also do the installation, I emailed them with specific questions; I wanted a list of the components and a breakdown of all the costs, including installation. The response was a long email expounding the virtues of the company, including the prestigious recent architectural projects using the product and services I was interested in.

What the salesman didn’t realize was that I was already sold on the product when I called, and wanted more detailed components & pricing answers to my questions! Lots of time wasted there (and I’m still waiting for my info!)

Not producing the information I need

Some people feel that educating me will result in my taking the information, but not buying product. Well; the exact opposite works for me. The more I am educated and learn about the product(s) and services from the sales person, the more likely I am to do business with that person and their company; provided of course it’s the right product for my specific design. It’s the educational learning process, getting the information I need in order to make the right purchase decisions. that is the deciding factor, both for the product, and where to buy it.

A sales person who at the first point of contact is helpful and informative is more likely to support me and be part of a company that contributes throughout my project. The opposite is usually true; an unhelpful person, unwilling to share information is unlikely to be a useful part of my team.

Failing to break down costs

This is a deal breaker, especially in complex scenarios. In order to budget a project that is not plagued with budget overruns, I need to understand every component and its cost. Yet many businesses are reluctant to even give a price range at the beginning of the process. And it’s not as though I am a price-shopper, I make that very clear at the onset; I want to know that what I want is in the range of the preliminary budget I created, or do I need to modify my budget to get what I want for a project.

I mentor businesses, and this is often a dilemma. How to present cost breakdowns so the customer understands the costs, and does not begrudge the profit a business is entitled to make. However, non-transparent costs raise red flags for me!

Every business owner can learn from this web page with two million views, “How Much Does a Fiberglass Pool Cost?”

Giving the impression that you don’t care

This one is hard to believe, but it happens more often than you might think. You can only make that first impression once, as the saying goes, so why don’t you show me that you care about my project, and care about having me as a customer?

I think this attitude sometimes comes from businesses who focus on doing business with big name or  ‘name-brand’ customers only. In my experience, building businesses from the ground up, I learned to take care of big and small equally, as a small customer could grow to become your most important one!

Disclosure: I often check a vendor out with a small project, to see how we work together before offering that huge contract!

This is the customer experience assessment list that I use when I first contact a business, and it’s from the customer point of view, ME. It has helped in my decision process of who will I be comfortable doing business with for the duration of the project and potentially on future projects. Perhaps even more than comfort, it gives an indication of work ethic, timeliness and caring about me the customer before we get in too deep.

I frankly don’t believe that in today’s competitive environment the businesses that turned me off and caused me to go elsewhere did so intentionally. So why did it happen? Can any of my readers who are deeply committed to customer experience shed any light on this?  Or please add an item to the list of reasons why businesses lose customers. 

Needless to say, for every business that was a turn off, I found one that I will do business with, and whom I am confident will be a contributing and integral part of my current architectural project team.

Article originally posted on Designing Success.

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Entrepreneurs

3 Tips to Bringing Feminine Energy into Masculine Business Models

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Your biggest strength is also your biggest weakness. And that’s not only true of people, but also of things created by people.

Like the traditional business model, which is very masculine. And while that’s most definitely a strength — it’s also a weakness. (Especially for women living too much in their masculine energy, but even for men who may run the risk of losing touch altogether with their feminine side.) With more women joining the ranks of entrepreneurship than ever before in the history of humankind, we now have an opportunity to infuse traditional business models with feminine energy.

Now while that may sound good in theory, in practice this becomes “How the heck do you do that?” So if you’d like a few tips on how to get started infusing your biz with some feminine energy so you can more effortlessly build your biz, then read on.

1. STOP and breathe. Masculine energy is about moving forward toward a goal, preferably as quickly as possible. While there’s no question that’s what you want to be doing when you’re growing a business, if you spend all your time in that energy, you’ll burn out. (Hence the biggest strength/biggest weakness.) This is where the feminine energy of stopping, breathing and taking time for YOU comes in.

Not only will you give yourself a much-needed break, but you’ll also allow yourself some time to catch your breath to see if the direction you’re going in is really the direction you WANT to be going in. Which leads me to the next tip.

2. Listen to your intuition. Many successful entrepreneurs, men and women both, know that trusting their gut is one of their most important strengths. And you can thank your feminine side for your intuition!

The problem is most of the time, we either don’t hear it or don’t trust it. Taking time to stop, breathe and listen allows our intuition to talk to us. And over time, as we listen and follow (or not follow) what our intuition tells us (and see how right it was) we can learn to trust it.

3. Learn to receive. Feminine energy is about receiving. And for many of us, receiving is not at all comfortable. (We’re much more comfortable in the giving energy.) But if we can’t receive, how can we receive money into our business, or clients or sales or opportunities?

That’s why we need to learn how to receive.

For me, this was also a struggle, and how I started the process of learning to receive was by accepting compliments. I was someone who would always brush a compliment aside — oh it wasn’t a big deal, oh anyone could have done that. (Part of my Midwestern Wisconsin roots as well, I suspect.) But instead I started saying simply “Thank you,” really meaning it, and just staying quiet. I stopped turning it around and/or brushing it aside, and allowed myself to just receive the compliment, instead.

It wasn’t easy — in fact, to this day it’s still not easy, but it’s easier. And it’s made a huge difference in my biz and my life.

In fact, all these tips have helped me slow down and welcome the feminine into my biz, which has in turn helped make me feel less stress and less overwhelm. My hope is they will do the same for you.

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Entrepreneurship

Jump at the Chance!

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It was over 20 years ago.  I had decided to take a trip with an old friend to the west of Ireland.

It was a typical late summer’s day.  It was raining and windy, with bouts of sunshine trying to burst through.

We wanted to go over to the Aran Islands from Galway; this meant a short crossing on a ferry.

The sea was rough and we could hear and feel the wind and waves, the rain stopping and starting as we set out on the journey across the bay.

I have always loved boats, ever since my father took me fishing as a young child.  My instinct is to stay out in the wind and breathe in the fresh air, feel the spray and rain on my face.

I left my friend and weaved my way to the stern of the ferry, I wanted to be outside.

Up ahead another woman was doing the same thing.

Her walk was lilting with the waves and what I learned later was difficult post-operative hips (and perhaps some whiskey too!).

She had sneaked out for the air and a cigarette!

I was immediately drawn to this wild looking woman with grey long hair, a very colorful jumper and a mischievous grin on her face.

I introduced myself and we began chatting. I immediately loved her!

Mo was a true free spirit.  She had up and left her two ex-husbands and adult kids, her restaurant business and she had sold her house.  She bought a camper van and was travelling around the world.

She went where she could find temporary cooking jobs and then as her spirit guided her, moved on to new places.

Within 15 minutes she invited me to come with her to Scotland and work as her galley slave on a boat.  I immediately said yes!

That night, in a pub on the Island, accompanied by traditional Irish Music, stories and some great whiskey, we planned the next few months.

It was as wonderful as it sounds.  Mo taught me how to make the best bread (fresh every day), how to chop lettuce to the tiniest strips and how to keep vegetable dressings crispy fresh when you garnish fish.

We had some of the funniest times; balancing on the underside of a harbor wall with a bucket and a stick as Mo yelled where the best mussels were so I could knock them off and we’d cook them for dinner!

We worked hard together and played even harder.

We told stories, sang, laughed and cried together.

We drank great Scotch!

Not long ago, I learned that Mo passed away in the village that had become her home and her community for the last few years of her life.

With all her joy and fun, she had an immense sadness in her.  I am glad she found a home and peace throughout those last years.

She was a true inspiration for me; a free spirit with a deeply adventurous soul.

She taught me to follow your instinct and go where your heart leads you.  She showed me that life is full of fun, joy and freedom, if you can only reach out and grab them!

I am blessed by her brief presence and lasting resonance in my life.  Sometimes inspiration comes from unexpected places and in unpredictable times.

Who has inspired you with tears of joy, laughter and adventure?

When have you listened to your instinct and jumped at a chance that will change your life?